http://mit-souko.livejournal.com/ ([identity profile] mit-souko.livejournal.com) wrote in [personal profile] chochajin 2013-09-16 02:01 pm (UTC)

I agree with kevinsensei and leviiosa8.

But I would like to say that, very often, you don't know you will like a job till you do it. I was only 16 when I started college. I was too young to know what to do, and got into law school [in France you have a prep year, then go directly into it]. After 2 years, I realized I absolutely hated law. But, in the French system, it's hard to change fields of study without restarting from scratch. So I continued through to my degree. But then, I ended up in the US, where a French law degree is useless. Eventually I started working in accounting [took some evening classes], and found to my surprise that I really liked it! So, very often you don't know till you do it.

In my experience, it is also difficult to decide if you want children or not. They are not abstract beings, but people you have to care for, worry about, be responsible for. It depends very much on the situation, on your partner, etc. Sometimes they arrive by accident, and you find you adore them anyway.

For heaven's sake, work on your self esteem and stop putting yourself down! You clearly are pretty and have talents. Be proud of yourself, think of your assets, not of impediments!

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