omg dear I feel so bad for you :((((((((((((((((((( but I say forget about that and move out! don't let her ruin your life, I know it's not your fault ...but hey it's not worth it anymore. Don't you think you're suffering more staying there than moving out? You're working and you need to sleep, I mean come on!! you're a human being, not a thing. There's enough stress in your life everyday with work, Japanese, the country and stuff. It doesn't matter if it makes it look like she've won and like she can do whatever she feels like it. I care more about your well being and health. I hope this thing work out for the best really so you can be happy and smiley again *hugs tight*