[Japan]: Breakdown

[chochajin]

It's around 4am now.

I can barely see what I'm writing here. I feel dizzy and horrible.
The BIATCH is at it again and it's louder and more horrible than ever before! I really tried to sleep, I tried. I tried to cover my already plugged ears with whatever I could find - in vain.
Their volume level is just beyond everything you can think of.

And now I'm sure she/they is/are doing it ON PURPOSE!!!
Right now there are at least 5 people over there (girls and boys) ..... and when I was banging against the wall I realized they were laughing at it/me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
This is soooooooo horrible! I feel like crying!
I wanna leave this horrible apartment RIGHT NOW!!!

I mailed the daughter of my boss, that I can't take it any longer and that they either find a way to make her move out or I'll move out (which would be unfair, because why should I have to suffer?!) ...........


Anyway I feel horrible, tired, angry, sick, helpless.
Why is that happening to me? Why are you COMPLETELY ruining my Japan experience, bitch?

I sooooooooooooooooooooo want to sleep, but there is just no freaking way in hell for me to do so right now!
If I were iin Germany, I just would stop by a friends' place and sleep there for the night.


*big sigh* (.________________________.)

Comments

[himehikari.livejournal.com]

I'm so sorry for you *hugs* I hope it will get better soon.

A suggestion, maybe you can play some Japanese songs while you're asleep?Wearing headphones perhaps?

[jazzmine-lj.livejournal.com]

that's rude of them! anyway just stay strong and pretend you're not affected.. ^^

[lalanna.livejournal.com]

I say kick her ass... lol

Is it proper to confront her?


Hmm... you know try some earplugs in the mean time. I use them when my parents have the TV too loud.

[dvampyrlestat.livejournal.com]

I wish I could say 'cheer up' but that would be easier said than done, right?

I think it's time you become really rude. Never mind that you are in Japan and they are not usually confrontational, but desperate times call for desperate measures....And since they're being that blunt and blatant about it, give 'em a dose of your medicine.

This may not be the best advice but....get even.

And DON'T move out. :)

[leviosa8.livejournal.com]

I was going to translate the letter this afternoon but it seems that won't help. Nor calling the police, although if she is really doing it on purpose, that could make things more tense. Mmmm. Let's see what the bosses tell you, but I'm afraid moving out will be the best option. It's not your fault this is happening, so I hope they understand and help you OUT!

[x-reggg.livejournal.com]

do it back at her?
if she can play loud music on purpose just to annoy you, i don't find a reason why you can't annoy her back T_____T

[(Anonymous)]

oh what the hell i'm sorry dear >< karma is going to kick her ass =] people these days have no common courtesy -__-

[pin0k0o.livejournal.com]

lol ^ sorry that was me XD

[miss-dian.livejournal.com]

My God. The bitch needs to be stabbed!!

[http://users.livejournal.com/lunacy_/]

Das ist wirklich SEHR dreist! Ich würde wahrscheinlich jedesmal wenns so ist, mind. 1x in der Nacht bei ihr vorbeschauen und ihr Alles mögliche erzählen. Ich könnte ja nichtmal Japanisch - so wie du...und würde ihr dann halt auf Englisch was erzählen, das wäre mir sowas von egal ob sie mich versteht oder nicht. Sie würde schon merken, worums geht und viell. irgendwann selber genervt davon sein, wenn sie jede Nacht Besuch bekommt....XD Aber ob das was bringen würde, kA.

Aber dass sich mal wieder kein Mensch beschwert oder so - ist doch echt soooo typisch!

[currynana.livejournal.com]

OMG, U must be extremely tired. Gosh, that really is horrible!!!!!!!!!! *hugs*
And extremely mean of them to be doing it to u like that! I wish it was easy for u to just go over and tell them to quiet down but as u mentioned...tht doesnt seem to be the way with things there... i have no solutions for u but i can really feel that is really miserable. I hope things get better soon. While although yes, u shouldnt be the one who suffer, if tht girl's not leaving or going to quieten down, maybe for the sake of ur health, u'll have to move...u need rest!!!!!! and peace!!!!

[dailing81.livejournal.com]

CALL THE COPS!!!

[mahochan1.livejournal.com]

*hugs* Hope everything gets better soon! *more hugs*

[mizukomidori.livejournal.com]

I'm sorry. I hope your landlord or what not is reasonable. I hope things work out. <3

[shunluv.livejournal.com]

sorry to hear bout ur problem:(
*hugs*
i hope u can get out of this problem soon.....
i hope the BITCH get throw out from the house

[crinkle.livejournal.com]

:( I'm sorry she's ruining your Japan experience, some people are so inconsiderate!

[icequeenanna.livejournal.com]

Wow, that girl must be really inconsiderate... She's not the only one living there, and holding such a loud party-thing in such an hour is too cruel. You should do the same to her sometime, should you get the chance U.U

Poor you >.< It was a good thing that you informed someone about this, and I hope that she will get kicked out of there <.< You shouldn't leave, that would be so unfair!

Just hang in there, I'm sure a solution will make its way to you soon enough ^_________^

[redundergarment.livejournal.com]

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I hope you are okay!

Please take care! :D Get better soon! Don't let this ruin your japan experience!!!


smile okay!

[mtassarion.livejournal.com]

i can assure you, and this is coming from my -Asian- upbringing, that you can definitely call the police on her now.

What she is doing is just downright criminal, and it infringes even on your health now. There is now way she can be forgiven for such behaviour anywhere in Asia. It doesn't look like she is going to stop unless she gets a fine for domestic distrubance or something.

Believe me, you -can- call the cops. I don't think your boss is really aware of your ordeal, they're all underestimating what you're going through. This is not just an annoyance anymore, she is actually committing a crime by being so loud even when she has been told multiple times she shouldn't.

I'm not exactly sure what the penalty for such a thing is in Japan, but if she actually does get a criminal record over it, then that's her own goddamned fault when she finds that such a thing decreases one's chances of finding a decent job 100%.

What an ass.

[shardaunei.livejournal.com]

i don't understand why the landlord/lady can't do anything about it? what about the other neighbor?

if something like this happens here in america, the police actually would arrest them for disturbing the peace.

i wonder if you can cut her electricity.... *insert evil cackle here*

So Sorry!

[pnolan.livejournal.com]

Hi, C! Did you get my other suggestions yesterday? But it sounds like short of kicking her ass there is nothing you can expect her to do. So it's up to you! You are only a couple of months into your stay, so I'd say move! But your school should pay and help you. And maybe you could stay with your boss and his wife for awhile for some rest time? You've got to make sure they understand the seriousness of your situation.

Have you tried having your boss call the police? There must be laws governing this kind of situation - it's not like Japan is lawless, right? Maybe you could record the noise some night for "proof"?

I would try that, and then if it doesn't help, move! You need the sleep and the peace,C! Moving would be temporarily uncomfortable and trying, but well worth it in the long run, especially if you plan to stay for more than a year. And this time you could do some "neighbor research" before you accept any apartment.

Well, good luck, C, and remember I'm thinking about you!

[tangerinesun.livejournal.com]

Isn't there any way to report her to authorities or something? or or maybe cooperate with other neighbors to kick her out of the apartment!

[quinnsan.livejournal.com]

Oh my god thats just really terrible! I can't believe someone could be so disrespectful to their neighbor. >< *pats* I hope you were able to get some sleep with all that noise your bitch of a neighbor was making.

[fireflyeness.livejournal.com]

OOOOoooh, that makes me mad!!! I can't believe how unfair your situation is... I'm sure it will work out fine in the end, though; either she moving out or you will make life easier for you. Shikari! *hugs*

[pearlsphere.livejournal.com]

omg dear I feel so bad for you :((((((((((((((((((( but I say forget about that and move out! don't let her ruin your life, I know it's not your fault ...but hey it's not worth it anymore. Don't you think you're suffering more staying there than moving out? You're working and you need to sleep, I mean come on!! you're a human being, not a thing. There's enough stress in your life everyday with work, Japanese, the country and stuff. It doesn't matter if it makes it look like she've won and like she can do whatever she feels like it. I care more about your well being and health. I hope this thing work out for the best really so you can be happy and smiley again *hugs tight*