I see :(
At least it's over for you now, mostly, so I'm glad to hear that :3

I think my main problem is that I focus too much on the only goal that I still have left: studying Japanese - and ignoring everything else.
I've always been like that. I'm a perfectionist. I want to concentrate on only one thing and not do many things, but only "a little bit"....
I think I should force myself to go out more often and meet new people - but it's difficult. ARGH! :/
And I'm not sure if this will help me, but at least I should try...

I'm actually thinking about getting a car :)

I think a list like that might be a good idea, but the problem is to CHANGE things accordingly :/