I know life sometimes sucks but if we just cry over the spilled milk then we won't see the opportunities in front of us. There's a popular phrase at my country that says: when a door close, a window opens. And it clearly states that there will always be an opportunity. That's how I see the situations that happen to me if not then I would just be full of rage, anger and desperation and in that state I won't see an exit to the solution.

Staying positive clears our minds so you can find a better path to follow.

You're starting to choose in a better way your path and without being a pessimist you'll find it quicker.

I'm really happy for you :)